My name is Mistress Alisa. I am an international Dominatrix who has been helping men to be free from sex, porn, and masturbation addictions ever since 2005. I also help men to establish healthy, loving, and fulfilling relationships with themselves, as well as with their partners. 

(Note: If the button below says "Let's Talk Now!" then I am available to speak with you live. Read below for options.)

Welcome To My Lair!

 

 

This is a soft website launch. Sign up for My newsletter to remain updated on news of My full launch, which will include blog posts on a number of real-life issues, a full listing of My services, and episodes from My new podcast (tentatively titled Kink Friendly).

My name is Mistress Alisa. I am an international Dominatrix who has been helping men to be free from sex, porn, and masturbation addictions ever since 2005. I also help men to establish healthy, loving, and fulfilling relationships with themselves, as well as with their partners. 

(Note: If the button below says "Let's Talk Now!" then I am available to speak with you live. Read below for options.)

Welcome To My Lair!

 

 

This is a soft website launch. Sign up for My newsletter to remain updated on news of My full launch, which will include blog posts on a number of real-life issues, a full listing of My services, and episodes from My new podcast (tentatively titled Kink Friendly).

A Welcome Message

This is the voice that will open the doors to your heart, and help you to be brave enough to face even your greatest fears. This is also the voice that will lead you to the waters that will quench your thirsty soul. This is the voice that will train you, comfort you, shape and mold you, and even chastise you.
Hear the voice. Know the voice. Love the voice...

Mistress Alisa
Speaks...
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A Unique, Kink-Friendly Style Of Counseling & Coaching


For hundreds of years, the BDSM lifestyle has been attracting men with the lure of erotic pleasure. However, in focusing so heavily on sexual pleasure, men often times become ensnared in unhealthy, addictive, and otherwise dysfunctional cycles that lead them to very dark, empty, and lonely places. Those voids can become so deep that men find themselves lost and in a state of despair. I am Mistress Alisa, and I am here to help.

FULL LIST OF SERVICES


Please be advised that these offerings are intended for coaching, counseling, and educational purposes only. If you are looking for an actress or someone to fulfill your sexual desires, I would like to make it exceptionally clear that this is not the place for you.

IMPORTANT! Be sure to click on the arrow button in the widget below to see all of the options for contacting me.

Virtual Domination

Your life is out of control. You need a firm, yet caring Dominant Woman to give you structure and accountability, and to lead you to a more fulfilling way of living. 

Male Submissive Training

You desire to serve a Dominant Woman, but you don't know how to go about doing that. You need to learn correct, male submissive etiquette. Start here.

BDSM Life Coaching

You have questions about BDSM, and you want to find your place in this vast world. Embrace your personal truth, and avoid the enticing pitfalls that trap the masses.

Sex/Porn/Masturbation Addictions

You struggle with sexual compulsions that are ruining your life and your relationships. Mentally, emotionally, financially, physically, and spiritually, you are drained. You need help. Now.

Relationship Counseling

You want to understand how to be in relationship with your partner, in a meaningful and fulfilling way, and with both your needs being met. Learn how to, truly, love and be loved.

Sissy & Feminization
Counseling/Coaching

Want to explore your feminine side? Have questions about your sexuality? Love getting dressed up and completing assignments for Mistress? Step right this way, My good girl!

Financial Domination Addiction

Is your sexuality wrapped up in your finances? Are you seeking validation and trying to prove your self-worth by allowing women to hijack your sexual desires?

Hypno-Domination Addiction

You have fallen into the trap of turning your will over to a powerful woman, in order to achieve momentary bliss. This is an unhealthy practice that destroys a lot of men.

The Virtual Girlfriend Experience

You have engaged in the act of self-pleasuring for so long that you don't have the social skills necessary to form meaningful relationships with women. I can help.

Just need someone friendly and open-minded to talk to?

Maybe you are having a hard time in life and you just want to connect with someone in the world who sincerely cares about others. Want me to talk, or just listen while you talk and get some things off your chest? Need some advice? Connect with me and begin your call by saying, "Hello, Mistress Alisa. I just need someone to talk to." And I will be there for you...

The Kink Friendly Podcast

Season 1: For Men       Season 2: For Women       Season 3: For Couples

VICTORIA LEGEND
(Mistress Alisa's pen name)

Join the Victoria Legend Fan Club today for only $5/month to get immediate access to chapter releases of Key To The Kingdom. You will also gain access to exclusive content, such audio recordings of each chapter being narrated by Victoria Legend (aka Mistress Alisa).

Click here for details.

THE VISION

I have come to realize that this work is my passion. It is much more than just a hobby. So, I have set up a Buy Me A Coffee account to accept sponsorships ($5/month), as well as one-time donations. If my content has helped you in any way over the years, I would like to ask you to consider supporting me in my endeavor to become a full-time content provider.