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Jim’s Response To The Chainbreaker System

Jim’s Response To The Chainbreaker System

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The following was a message posted by a Chainbreaker Member who goes by the name of “Jim” in our group. His post was in regards to some of the thoughts that he had while listening to Episode #5 of The Chainbreaker Podcast (click here). My response to him is also posted below.

This is an example of the types of discourse that you can expect to see take place in our group. In addition to having a safe place for conversations about sex, porn, and masturbation addictions, we also meet weekly and go through a curriculum that I created specifically for my clients. If you are struggling with addictions of a sexual nature, The Chainbreaker Community (click here) is here for you.

DEAR MISTRESS ALISA,

My darker mindset went quickly to more provocative material I liked leg show magazine because I was fascinated by being dominated by a woman. Strip clubs with fraternity brothers became going by myself adult movie theaters were still around and bookstores back in late 70’s early 80’s. I got married had healthy loving relationship but wife was not adventurous that way at all and still is that way, so I continued started calling phone sex lines. This all continues through my life like you say in podcasts going to more darker pornography. I was never late for work or lost job etc but spent many hours feeding that monster. I got into erotic hypnosis with this mistress and know all about the mind fuck and obeying bringing pleasure. I think you get the idea, but if you have any questions I’ll answer them.

But what am I doing about it is replacing the feeding of all those negative ideas and media with cold hard facts from your podcast with slow deliberate examination of my consciousness of why I felt like I needed to escape. A lot happened in those early years. My brother (had health issues) and I lost my dad to cancer when he was (still pretty young). I was in my early 20s and still figuring it out. I just know I can not go back to that way of escaping I was going to far and the problems in life never go away so I will continue to work through this for my ah ha moment that might make sense of it all.

Kindest regards,
Jim

MY RESPONSE 👠

This is excellent processing, . I love the openness and the willingness to face yourself – to be more vulnerable with yourself and with the group. You are most certainly coming into your own and it is a beautiful thing to see.

I’m hoping that at this point you are feeling some relief and starting to feel like you have a bit more self-control – and like you have better control over your mind and emotions. There might be just little glimmers of hope at this point (because you are so early on your journey), but keep taking those steps forward, sweetheart. You’ve got this! You are fucking DOING the damn thing and I’m so proud of you!

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