Heart & Soul Relationship Counseling: Tools For Building Passionate & Lasting Love With Your Partner

* I am not a licensed professional and I do not provide any services that require professional licensure for practice. Also, please note that my services are designed specifically for men and women (biological men and biological women).


Unlock the Secrets to A Healthy, Loving, Passionate, and Fulfilling Relationship For You and Your Partner

Through the Heart & Soul Relationship Counseling Path*, you (and your partner, if applicable) embark on a transformative journey towards enriching your connection. I guide you, as an individual or as a couple, toward understanding how to cultivate healthier, more fulfilling relationships - and I teach you how to putt that knowledge into practice. Whether you're seeking to reignite the spark in your partnership, navigate challenges, or embark on a journey of self-discovery, this path will help to support you every step of the way.

In addition to being well-versed in general areas like communication issues, unforgiveness, healing, rebuilding after infidelity, etc., I also offer specializations in issues surrounding male sexuality (i.e., the male sex drive, male sexual deviance, porn addictions in men, etc.). Additionally, I help women to get clarity on what they want out of their relationship, and to find their voice. For both parties, I emphasize the importance of telling the truth, and for personal accountability for one's actions. No BS. No half truths. I help you to get results.

Get Lasting Results

Come in with an open heart and mind, and trust the process. I will take care of the rest.

A Tried & True System

No more going in circles for years and years with nothing to show for your efforts.

Work At Your Own Pace

Approaching layers of emotional pain can be quite frightening. We will work at your pace.

I do not hold biases toward either sex. The goal is for healing to take place, and for both sides to learn how to communicate, and to trust one another so that both parties can enjoy loving one another with trust, passion, and complete abandon.
- Mistress Alisa

— Jake, Bow Wow Dog Walking 

The Heart & Soul Relationship Counseling Difference

"No more being in counseling for years, only to go in incessant circles. It's time to heal and learn how to love and be loved."

~Mistress Alisa

This program is designed to help couples emerge from the ashes of brokenness and destruction with renewed love. I help couples to become more open and vulnerable with one another so that they can do the essential work that needs to be done.

This service helps couples to heal what hurts within themselves so that they can restore what has been damaged within themselves and within their relationship, and learn to truly love and be loved.

I help clients to transform their brokenness and dysfunctional "love" into a stronger, more fulfilling, actionable, and lasting love.

Goal-Oriented Sessions

Experience the power of goal-oriented relationship counseling, where every session is strategically designed to help you and your partner achieve tangible milestones, fostering deeper understanding, trust, and connection while propelling you towards a happier and more harmonious relationship.

Expert Sex Coaching

Over the past 15 years, I have...Now is your opportunity to unlock a world of intimacy, pleasure, and communication with sex coaching led by a seasoned professional, where you'll gain invaluable insights, techniques, and strategies tailored to your unique desires and challenges, empowering you to cultivate a fulfilling and vibrant sexual connection.

Access To Our Active Community

Joining our online community at Heart & Harmony opens the door to a world of invaluable perks designed to support you on your journey towards fulfilling relationships. As a member, you'll gain access to a vibrant community of like-minded individuals, where you can engage in discussions, share insights, and connect with others on similar paths. Additionally, you'll receive exclusive content, including articles, workshops, and webinars, all crafted to deepen your understanding of relationships and enhance your personal growth. Our community also offers regular Q&A sessions and live events with our experienced coaches, providing you with direct access to expert guidance and support tailored to your needs. Together, we'll empower you to cultivate deeper connections, navigate challenges, and ultimately thrive in all aspects of your relationships.

Unrestricted Growth Through Insurance-Free Counseling

Experience personalized support and accelerated growth with our counseling service, tailored exclusively to your needs without the constraints of insurance. By operating independently of insurance, we offer a streamlined and confidential experience, allowing us to prioritize your progress and provide dedicated attention to your unique journey towards transformation and fulfillment.


Service Plans

Choose how you would like to interact with me - as a member or as a non-member. Members receive perks, discounts, and easier, more timely access to me. Whether you're seeking coaching services only, or coaching services with access to premium content and a supportive community, our membership options offer the flexibility and benefits you need to achieve your goals. Explore our levels below and find the perfect fit for your unique path to transformation.


Members have direct access to me through my members only platform for 1-on-1 sessions. The platform also provides a safe space for members to do their individualized work, while simultaneously having access to other like-minded individuals who are also working on their own sexual addictions.

  • Access to the online community
  • Access to members' only content (Patreon)
  • 15% discount off of session calls
  • Access to live members' only events (online)
  • Access to recordings of online events

$20/month membership fee + $2/minute session fee


Non-members have periodic access to me, at full price, through a few platforms that I have used on and off through the years. However, it should be noted that, while I am still associated with a couple of those services, I do plan to discontinue affiliations with all external platforms in the near future.

  • Members' only content (Patreon)
  • 15% discount off of session calls
  • Access to my online community
  • Access to live members' only events (online)
  • Access to recordings of online events

$0/month membership + $2.35/minute

Step #1: Join the community for $20/month (USD).

Sign Up

Sign-up for The Relationship Renaissance Community on Patreon.

Monthly membership dues ($20 USD) for our closed community are handled through Patreon, which is also where all members' only content is stored. You will receive immediate access to that content as soon as you become a member.

As long as you have an active membership through Patreon, you will have access to the members' only content, which is updated on a regular basis.

Step #2: Gain access to the community and be assigned to the correct groups.

Check your email after signing up on Patreon. Follow the directions included in that message.

Please allow up to 48 hours for a response from someone on our team. Our community is a closed space and each member is manually added to the space and manually added to the correct groups.

Note that, while some spaces are coed, there are some separate spaces for men and women. Also, please note that this is a binary space for biological men and biological women only. (No exceptions.)

Step #3. Opt to have professional 1-on-1 sessions with Mistress Alisa.

When I am available for 1-on-1 sessions, I log on inside of our very own community. Members are able to see when I am available. (Note that sessions are audio only; clients are required to remain anonymous in this community).

I offer 30+ hours of availability each week to my members. These sessions are available at a 30% discount. (Member price: $120/hour, Non-member price: $141/hour.)

Keep in mind that I do NOT offer jerk-off services. If that is what you are looking for, you will need to look elsewhere. Nor do I teach women how to use and abuse men. You should only consider joining this community if you understand my vision and are like-minded with regard to the topics that I discuss.